I can tell that I am maturing, not by the new “character lines” I see popping up (hate that), but rather by the way that language and jargon continues to change. I really have tried to stay up with new acronyms such as LOL, or POS, or even “keep it on the DL”.
But while we “mature” adults feel the need to keep up with the younger generation’s “language”, some of the older acronyms seem to be fading away. I realized this today when I was seeing a young patient and his mother. The cute little 5 year old boy had a virus with a fever and a cough.
After finishing his exam and doing an influenza test on him (it was negative) I told the mom that the best way to treat his virus was with fever control and a little TLC. She gave me this blank look and said, “is that a brand of cough syrup?” I didn’t know whether to laugh or to cry. I thought that TLC was a universal acronym for all mothers (or maybe better put for parents) as even my own parents and grandparents would say, “you just need a little TLC”.
For those of you who have read this far and still don’t know what I am talking about, TLC is the acronym for “tender loving care”. What better way to treat your feverish, coughing, uncomfortable child, than with a little TLC.
When my own children are sick, even now that they don’t all live at home, they still all want some TLC. As much of a rule follower that I am, when your child is sick, the rules get broken for a while. That means that children get to sleep in their parent’s beds (I often moved after a few wild kicks and thrashing), but one parent remained with the feverish child sleeping next to mom or dad.
There were all sorts of “forbidden fruits” given to a child who was sick, such as “slurpees”, ice cream and popsicles in bed, favorite foods all day long and even television without a time limit. The homework might not get finished due to a fever and general “feel bads”, and the list of things to do just went away for a few days while a child was sick. It was one of those lovely parenting moments when you could just “turn off the time” and snuggle with a sick child. In other words, lots of TLC.
TLC has nursed many a child through numerous illnesses over the years. I don’t think the directions for TLC have changed. Just do anything that makes your child feel better. Games in bed, making cookies and jello to eat after an afternoon nap, and even getting to have a special TV tray to use while eating chicken noodle soup. These “comfort foods” and pampering do make anyone who is sick feel a little bit better. There are even studies to confirm this.
So, remember TLC is not a new fancy cough syrup. It is the “tender loving care” a parent gives to a sick child. Some things never change with time and TLC is one of them. Best of all, no need for a prescription or a copay!
That’s your daily dose for today. What’s your favorite TLC remedy for your kids? Comment below to share with all of us!