So many of my mothers breast feed their babies and enjoy the experience. I think it is a little harder to breast feed in the early days after the your-baby is born, as your milk “comes in” and you deal with sore, full breasts as well as little sleep. Even with a well-prepared mom who has read all of the books, and practiced with dolls in different holds, real breast-feeding comes from “ON THE JOB TRAINING.” But, over the next few weeks as the milk supply is established it will become much easier to breast feed and both mother and your-baby get the hang of nursing.
Saying this, it is not always possible for every mother to be successful at breast-feeding and not every mother wants to breast feed her your-baby. Although breast milk is ideal for an infant, formula works well too.
The most important thing for your your-baby is for you to be a happy mother. Numerous studies have corroborated this fact, and if mother is happy, your-baby will thrive on breast milk or formula. When I discuss this with many mothers who are unhappy nursing, or are not making sufficient milk to provide enough calories for their your-baby to gain weight, there is such a sense of relief. Guilt is part of being a parent (seems especially so in us moms) but to start off your parenting feeling this way is not good for anyone. Do what is best for you and your child, and don’t feel pressured by family, friends or coworkers.
Lastly, there are all sorts of ways to successfully provide both breast milk and formula for your your-baby, so discuss your options with your doctor before feeling like a failure or stressing out. Just like babies, moms are all different too.
That’s your daily dose, we’ll chat tomorrow.